I used to find myself feeling a bit miserable on my birthday. But today I am alone (not all day) lying on a waterbed in a spa in Mallorca. Having had a lovely massage and a huge breakfast! Feeling reflective, but not unhappy. This, I think is the thing, it's quite an obvious anniversary to look at the years events and to become nostalgic, happy or sad. But I have decided to use this moment to and set goals for the future and it would appear, document!
Yesterday I had the absolute pleasure of having a lesson with and hanging out with Mallorcan show jumping champion and general athlete Emelie Marsh. I don't know Emelie at all, but the timing of us coming out to Mallorca seems to coincide with Emellie having a major incident and the reason we are here is because David is cycling with her husband Dan. So a couple of years ago we came out just after Emelie's tragic fall from a horse that was to have a huge impact on the rest of her life. Please read her blog, from the beginning. It's a true read of someone's determination and open mindedness overcoming adversity! www.emeliemarsh.com
Having read this you will understand I was possibly a little nervous to meet her! But, that was completely wasted as from the minute we met I don't think either of us stopped talking and all preconceptions gone! I was pleased to see she was driving, walking, talking and riding with apparent ease and had I not been reading the blog over the last year or so, I would have not suspected anything had happened in the last couple of years.
I then had the pleasure of riding Laala (I think) who is the horse she won the Mallorca championship on. I will be honest I was nervous, of course. I was 41 and 364 days old about to get on a beautiful, fit exceptionally athletic mare of 600kg! But, I had a thoroughly good time and Emelie did well with me (I wish she was about in England) getting me to concentrate on my riding and not the poles on the ground. She made me feel/realise I can ride and when she asked me to ride a tight circle in canter like I was doing a pirouette, I knew exactly what to do and executed it first time. I came away with a good feeling of what I need Eager to feel like and today I am in pain! My stomach muscles and bum are killing me! I literally rode my arse off! It's a real pity I forgot to ask her to take some photos.
So goals I need to focus on are Eager's jumping and I want to be eventing next year. I have already set the ball rolling.... To get to eventing I need to have jumping experience, repetition and trust under my belt. I need to know she will jump anything I point her at.
Jumping is much easier said than done when you are home alone. But Emelie reminded me yesterday about canter poles and it doesn't really matter of they move or get kicked about. Also last week I found someone who is willing to come to me after work and teach. So if we get on, hopefully I can get this going in the summer at least to every 2 weeks. Apart from that I need to get David back in training to put jumps up!
To also set my goal I have booked a lesson with John Bowen at brook farm, which will be in the big scary arena with hopefully small inviting jumps. This is at the end of May. I have 1 month! Also by the end of June, I need to have competed in a dressage comp.
Documented!